Can't find the question

I had someone, in the last two months I think, post a comment asking me about adoption. Usually when someone asks me a question, I copy it and post it in a new post so I can remember what it is and remember to reply to it. But with the move, I can't find it.

I remember that the person who asked me was from another country and that English wasn't their first language. I remember it was about adoption. I remember that they asked me something about how we were handling the adoption with Isaac and why we would want him to know he was adopted. Or something like that. But I can't find the exact question. And I don't think I can search my comments, only my posts.

If that person is reading, could you repost your question. Or if someone who remembers tons of details (Joia? Tara?) remember which post it was on, could you refresh me?

Thanks anyone!