1. You're not addicted to "potential" anymore. If it's unclear, inconsistent, or costs your peace ... you're out.
2. You let a text sit. Not to play a game -- you just didn't feel like explaining your energy today.
3. You walked away from a conversation that used to drain you. Yes! Without guilt, without the need to circle back!
4. You stopped screenshotting things just to prove a point later. You're not building a case anymore -- you're just moving on!
5. You had a hard day and didn't spiral into what's wrong with me. You just had a hard day. That's it. That's all it had to be.
6. You noticed the pattern. And instead of romanticizing it, you finally called it what it is -- and backed off.
7. You used to rehearse what you would say if they came back. Now? You don't even want to the conversation.
8. You don't instantly blame yourself when something goes wrong. You pause now. You consider. That's new.
9. You don't feel the need to be the strong one every time. You're letting people show up for you -- even if it's messy.
10. You're no longer rushing the in-between. You're letting the quite do its thing.
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