Great Quote on Shame

“Shame eats secrets for breakfast” is a quote attributed to Brené Brown, who is known for her TED Talk on shame. Brown has also said, “If you put shame in a petri dish and cover it with judgment, silence, and secrecy, you've created the perfect environment for shame to grow.

If you put shame in a petri dish and cover it with judgment, silence, and secrecy, you’ve created the perfect environment for shame to grow until it makes its way into every corner and crevice of your life. If, on the other hand, you put shame in a petri dish and douse it with empathy, shame loses its power and begins to wither. Empathy creates a hostile environment for shame—an environment it can’t survive in, because shame needs you to believe you’re alone and it’s just you."

 

I love this quote above. So much shame because we won't share. We won't be vulnerable. We won't be real. What if we weren't afraid of honestly?