1. "What's been the hardest part of your day or week? I really want to understand." This shows you really do care about them and creates a sense of safety.
2. "When you feel this way, how does it feel in your body?" This helps your child be aware of physical sensations and how they connect to their emotions in the moment. (Be patient if they say "I don't know.")
3. "Picture Jesus with you right now. What would He want to tell you about this?" Invite them into the truth of God's love and safety. (Time and repetition is important here -- especially if they are new to talking to God.)
4. "What do you wish I knew about how you're feeling right now?" Active listening makes the child feel seen and loved.
5. "IF you could change one thing about this situation, what would it be?" Let them know that their behavior can change and they are in the driver's seat of that change.)
Taken from rebecca.jo.grant on Instagram.
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